theres a lot more to tires than i thought, im sticking with my stock 18" rim, im leaning towards the 120 90 18
The largest tyre you can effectively run will be a 130/90-16 (or MT90-16) as is, on a wheel assembly
A wider tyre will not necessarily make the bike turn in slower as speed of turn in has nothing to do with width, but is controlled by profile and diameter. 130/90-16 being predominantly a touring size it is liable to have a slower profile, but not necessarily so. The "peakier", or more triangular the profile the faster it will turn in, but it will wear in the centre faster as the vertical footprint will be less, and the "flatter" the profile is the slower it will be to initiate a turn, but the wear will be correspondingly lower also, so your choice should be made around these features.
However, consider this
a 120 profile tyre may well be effectively wider than a 130 profile from brand to brand. The 130 tyre is really intentioned to be at its correct width on a wider rim (a minimum of a 3" rim as opposed to the CX 2.75vrim width), so the profile will be incorrect on a CX rim and not all of it will be able to be used on the road. This could well lead to it having 8-10 mm of unusued rubber at its edges making it in effect a 110 (130-(10x2). A properly profiled 120 that can be scrubbed to its edges becomes in reality a wider tyre, and its increased diameter will alter the rake, trail, and caster enough to make a difference
A 120/90-18 Avon Roadrider for example measures 129mm on a 2.75 rim, wheras a 110/90-18 measures 116 on a 2.50 rim (so probably about 119 on a 2.75)
However an MT90-16 measures 137 on a 3.00 rim ( so probably about 135 on a 2.75). However since the edges of the profile are now not correct it will almost certainly be effectively no wider than the 120, and although it will steer faster it will lose out in terms of load carrying capability by 187lbs